Think about your days. They probably go something like this:
You wake up a little groggy, and you make some coffee. Then you wake the kids, make breakfast, and get them off to school. At some point, you work. The same thing you’ve worked on for the last month. Maybe you go shopping. You grab the brands you usually buy, scout for the same sales you always do. Then you make dinner, clean the kitchen, and watch reruns for an hour before going to bed.
Squished in there are some laughs, some frustrations, and the occasional fantasies about winning the lottery and Alexander Skarsgard (you’re welcome).
Now.
What if, tomorrow, you wake up and make your coffee, and instead of washing your face with the same thing you always do, you make a gentle scrub from ingredients in your kitchen?
“Ooh, ooh!” You say, “I’ll avoid harsh chemicals! My skin will look and feel better! It’ll be better for the environment!”
Well, yes. You’re right. But what else might happen?
What might happen if, consistently, you start to make more natural – greener, if you will – choices? What happens then?
You get smarter.
And not just because you’re clearing out so many chemicals that are probably clogging your brain function. No. It’s because doing new things – creating new habits – literally, scientifically makes your brain function more efficiently and more creatively.
This was originally going to be all about how to create new habits, but there are a hundred billion articles and books devoted to that subject. Instead, while researching, I found this article at the New York Times that seriously blew my mind.
It states that “… unless we continue to learn new things, which challenges our brains to create new pathways, they literally begin to atrophy, which may result in dementia, Alzheimer’s and other brain diseases. Continuously stretching ourselves will even help us lose weight, according to one study. Researchers who asked folks to do something different every day — listen to a new radio station, for instance — found that they lost and kept off weight. No one is sure why, but scientists speculate that getting out of routines makes us more aware in general.”
So we get smarter (or, at the least, stave off brain atrophy) … and we lose weight (um, wow) … and we’re more aware (hello, Mr. Skarsgard’s abs!).
When we start to do new things.
When we stretch ourselves.
And what better way to do that than by making healthier, more natural choices?
Creating Real, Good Habits
Part of creating good habits is losing the bad ones that have us stuck. Personally, I don’t believe the answer exists in focusing on stopping a bad habit. The more you focus on the negativity, the more the negativity exists in your mind.
Instead, try focusing on one small change at a time. One small, positive change.
When you make that change – the first time – you congratulate yourself. You enjoy how it makes you feel. And then you go on with your day. If you slip back into an old habit, you acknowledge it as a moment, and then the next time you choose more positively. Again. And again. Until it’s a habit. A new, shiny, good habit.
It’s not easier said than done. It’s just easier done. One small step at a time.
(I even waxed poetic on that subject in my baking soda microdermabrasion post.)
An Unconventional Tip to Experiencing the Unexpected Side Effect
While contemplating all of this yesterday, I stumbled upon The Simple Secret to Making Change at SortaCrunchy. Her simple secret (and I encourage you to read the whole post – it’s very motivating) is this:
Just run out.
Want to eat the veggies in your freezer, but can’t quite make yourself do it after a hard day? Just run out of the junk you usually shove in your pie-hole. Just run out. And don’t get more of it.
Thinking you might like to try ditching the laundry detergent, like Jessica did? Wow, yeah. Easy. Run out.
If you’re finding yourself with a habit you just can’t slip out of, do the easiest thing in the world: Nothing. Don’t feed it. Don’t obsess about it. Just … do … nothing.
And then do something new.
Your brain will thank you for it later.
lola_marigold
This is serendipitous. A couple of weeks ago I heard an interview on CBC radio with the guy who wrote “the power of habit”..Thats was the catalyst for me, someone who always delved into this stuff and made plans for but never stuck to…Now I am in the right headspace..
Yuliya
And I’d like to add that ‘just run out’ is in itself a green philosophy, because buying new things (even if they are green/organic/homemade) isn’t as green as using up what you already have. Nice post!
Crunchy Betty
Oooh. So true. I hadn’t even thought of that particular point. Thanks for bringing it up! (Now I want to rewrite the post … heh.)
Although I am having a hard time with using up things that I have from “before” I made the change over to organics/naturals – like cleaning products and stuff from Bath & Body Works. I wish I knew how to do that, greenly and efficiently, without actually “using” them. Have any ideas?
Krista
I’ve been having that same issue. So far, I’ve used the B&BW body washes as toilet cleaner a la FlyLady (“soap is soap” and “swish everyday”), and I’ve about decided to sell the cleaners next time I have a garage sale. At 5-10 cents a bottle, they should go quickly. Also, the shampoo/conditioner I had stock-piled in my closet is getting donated to our local food pantry/assitance ministry because they are always looking for things like that. I’d welcome any ideas anyone else has.
Jen @ Lita's World
So true and so perfectly said! Running out has absolutely worked for me (and my hubby by default). I’ve found that once I started identifying with being green, it grew from there as I felt so good about my choices I wanted to expand upon them more and more. Kinda like making one of your homemade recipes- I just wanna make more now!
Crunchy Betty
It’s fun how boys just seem to go along with things when they’re left with no other option. When Fiance and I moved in together, I told him there would be no more fast food. He whined for a couple of days (having been a Taco Bell addict) and then he just accepted it. Once in a blue moon, I’ll see a charge to Taco Bell on the debit card … but it’s so rare, I can’t bring myself to lecture. Heh.
Toxic Beauty
Wow! Great advice! Many people want to make a change but get overwhelmed thinking how can I do all this at once? This is exactly what I tell people….use stuff up…change one little thing at a time. Before you know it, you will get there! This is what I did in my quest to go organic and it works well.
Crunchy Betty
Right? When I think about how I changed my eating habits, it really was just by not buying anything bad anymore. Now, I’m never even tempted by things like Doritos and other processed foods. In fact, when faced with a choice of eating them, even considering it makes me feel a little icky.
But it was all small steps to get there.
Goodbye to the need for instant gratification! That was so last decade.
Lori @ In Pursuit of Martha Points
I do a lot of teaching about this subject, the keep your brain active subject, that is.
The whole thing about the nuns.
Learning may not FIGHT the disease, but it fights the effects of the disease.
Learn learn learn.
Crunchy Betty
Have you ever thought about offering your services online?
I know someone who’d be interested.
If that’s even possible.
(Learn, learn, learn. That’s a simple but effective motto. I’m going to obsess over it for a few weeks. Thank you.)
Jessica Anne
So true, I knew I was smarter 🙂 (and thanks for the link!)
Stephanie
So true! All of it! I try to do new things often but I’m not doing it every day. Need to though. Exercising your brain is as important in staving off the effects of aging as exercising any other muscle in the bod… probably more so.
Running out of stuff is such a great opportunity to make better choices. I totally look forward to things running out! That could be the new nike slogan you know… “Just Run Out”… or “Just Run Out And Do It”. This could be big! I think you need to make t-shirts for us.
Crunchy Betty
Haha. Just run out and do it. I love it! (Wonder how Nike would feel about it, though.)
Um, can I just tell you the title of that blog post “Men Who Stare at Goat Cheeses” is genius. You’re genius.
Sigh.
Kristin @ Peace, Love and Muesli
Exactly! Just run out. Very wise.